Visits to my grandparents introduced me to other aspects of gardening; the charm of unusual vegetables such as the ground cherries that popped out of their papery skins. Shelling peas for dinner taught me that even though I was little, I could still be a productive helper. Eating vegetables out of the garden taught me that I was capable of feeding myself.
As I grew older, my mother's enthusiasm beguiled me out each day to see what was emerging from the ground, how plants grew and what was needed to get them to thrive. She pointed out the pink noses of peonies, the unusual and varied shapes of different vegetables, how mellow soil contributed to healthy plants. She personalized them and animated them. Hoeing, weeding, watering and spading became satisfying because I saw the results.
Winning a ribbon for exhibiting a flower I helped raise was another part of the allure of gardening. Praise and admiration of Mom's garden by her friends and mine introduced me to the social rewards that came from the beautiful, fragrant flowers and the healthy produce we shared.